Both ends of the link
Everything here applies equally to you and to the person you are talking to — in matches, calls, messages and profiles. Everyone on Umingle must be at least 18 years old.
Removed straight away
- Anything involving a person under 18. Removed at once and reported to the authorities, with no warning. An adult removed by mistake can ask for a review on the help page.
- Explicit material. Calls and messages stay non-explicit. Flirting is fine; explicit is not.
- Recording. Recording the other person, or passing on any part of a call.
- Threats and coercion, including pressing someone for money, photos or contact details elsewhere.
Banned, then removed, if it continues
- Harassment. Insults, intimidation, or carrying on after a no. A no needs no reason.
- Hate aimed at who someone is.
- Impersonation, including using someone else's face or photos.
- Selling and recruiting. If the aim is to send people somewhere else, it doesn't belong here.
- A fake camera. A black screen or a still picture in a video match wastes the other person's time. If you don't want to be seen, send messages instead.
Next is not rude
Moving on is part of chatting with strangers. Tapping Next or ending a call needs no explanation, and paying for a call doesn't change that for either side. What counts is how you behave while you are in it.
After a report
Every profile has a report option. A report is reviewed by people together with the part it is about. Accounts removed under these rules stay removed, and a new account made to get around a removal is removed too. Blocks take effect at once and stay in place until you remove them from your block list.
If you think a removal was wrong
Ask for a review — the help page explains how. The formal version of these rules is the terms of service.